在諮商室裡，我經常發現習慣付出、為他人著想的當事人，並不容易察覺自己的討好行為，他們困惑著說「這不是很正常嗎？」「大家不都這是這樣嗎？」
當你身旁親近的人遇到一些麻煩的時候，你是不是不用多想就會關心他或幫忙呢？大部分可能是傾聽、支持或鼓勵等正向回應吧，那如果遇到這狀況的是你自己，你又會對自己說些/做些什麼呢？
軟趴趴懶洋洋是許多療癒小物的集體形象，但真實人物擺在職場上，一點都不會被人連想到可愛生物，這樣的人姑且稱之為「軟懶族」，在同事間常是令人頭痛的生物
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