如果,我們都沒有「錯」,那麼究竟是哪裡出了錯?
在伴侶諮商的過程裡,我常告訴眼前的伴侶:「關係是互動出來的」,亦即困境是雙方的參與結果,但不會是誰的錯或問題;這般看待問題的立場,可能讓眼前爭論不休的兩人或其中一方,很難接受,如果我們都沒有錯,那麼誰是對的?要怎麼解決我的問題?
在伴侶諮商的過程裡,我常告訴眼前的伴侶:「關係是互動出來的」,亦即困境是雙方的參與結果,但不會是誰的錯或問題;這般看待問題的立場,可能讓眼前爭論不休的兩人或其中一方,很難接受,如果我們都沒有錯,那麼誰是對的?要怎麼解決我的問題?
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